My mother is the second oldest daughter of five girls, and-at-last, one boy. Etti, her older sister is only ten months older than she, but mother likes to confess, "Etti's always been more mature and wiser than me." She attributes this additional wisdom to the extra ten months. It has been decided by their parents that the two should be in the same level at school which means mother will always be the youngest in class, leading her to feel less sure of herself both at home and school. And because she's also the smallest of the class, she's much more restrained and introverted than Etti, who is fearless and gregarious, and the popular one. But by high school Mother is a couple inches taller than everyone, including her older sister, and eventually grew some much needed confidence.
Their father, Mr. Hosseini, is a well known businessman in Tabriz who is very strict and tough on his children, especially the girls. His primary concern as a father is to ensure that his daughters are the most honorable and noble young ladies in all of Tabriz. He achieves this by keeping the girls sheltered and under strict and tight control: for example, he demanded that they not look out the car window, as he chauffeured them to school; they were allowed only to look straight ahead or down at their laps. He didn't want the passers-by to think that they were nosy children, curious of the world outside. He prided himself on having girls who were reputable for their purity and chastity. Mother says that this he succeeded in. She often claims proudly that she was "shielded from the sun and the moon," aftab mahtab nadideh, this in comparison with women from Tehran and other cities who "had boyfriends and became unrestrained and impure," she would say.
She is the most attractive of her sisters: tall, lean, and statuesque with light skin, a quality that was deemed noteworthy in those days. Sadly she's unaware and blind to this beauty, but her sisters all know. It is understood that until she remains unwed, no prospective suitor will even look in their direction. From early pubescence, people inquire of her, and suitors continually knock on their door. But because of custom, the girls had to be married in order of age, and her older, wiser, and shorter sister would have to have an eligible suitor before anyone could even be considered for mother.
After graduating high school, their father begins investigating the possibility of sending the two older girls to Europe for study. The promise of going to an exotic place for university to make something of herself is the most exciting thing for Mother. Rather than getting married and enduring the hardships, responsibilities, and burdens of having a family and bearing children, she begins fantasizing about her escape to Europe. She is barely seventeen years old. Her dreams will soon be shattered however, by a family friend who claims that he once knew someone who had a friend who sent his children to boarding school in Germany, but the girls became "polluted and slipped into the wrong direction." Their father would never speak of sending them abroad, ever again.
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Firouz is a city employee who works for the department of urban developing. He's in his early 30's and is, gloatingly, a ladies man. Known for his dignified charm and keen resemblance to Marlon Brando. (Hollywood movies are very popular in Tabriz in the 60's and 70's.) He has a co-worker and friend who is about the same age as him, and when the two share their dreams and hopes for the future, Reza's involve marrying a young girl who is pure and unpolluted, a young lady that has been shielded from the sun and the moon. Firouz questions this notion, and asks "Wouldn't you want a partner in life who understands the world the way you do, instead of having to teach her?" to this Reza responds "I want a gril who respects and looks up to me, not an outspoken-unmanageable woman."
Soon Reza begins courting a girl who he brags is exactly what he's been looking for, "A GOD send," he says. The two have been studying one another for a couple of months. He's been granted permission by her father to visit her in their home for family dinners and outings, but only because he's expressed deep desires and intentions of marrying her. Reza's become a different man since he's met this girl, Firouz has observed, he's doing everything in his will and power to convince her family that he's worthy of her hand and love. He comes into work one day boasting about his glorious find and recent developments in his relationship. Charmed and intrigued, Firouz wonders if this young lady may have any friends that might be suitable for him. "I know she does," Reza responds, "Why don't you join me next time I visit her, I will ask her to invite a friend who is, THE MOST, like her."
They plan a double date, that begins with picking up Reza's object of affection from her parent's home, followed by, meeting her friend at a cafe. Dressed in his best suit and tie, Firouz is enthralled to finally meet the girl that Reza has been speaking so highly of. He carries a bouquet of flowers and a box of freshly baked cookies from the local pastry shop, to show respect and gratitude to her parents for allowing their daughter to spend the evening with him and Reza, for the purpose of the double date, so that he too could soon be boasting about his new found love. He imagines his date to be a pure and young beauty, and is rather delighted about the possibilities that await him.
While approaching the home, he takes notice of a young woman, a statuesque figure with dark brown hair and matching pair of eyes, holding a hose, that's watering the flowers in the garden. He bows his head gesturing to say hello, "Salam aleykoom," he says. She nods her head, while whispering something undetectable even to the closest set of ears. Receiving his greeting just to be polite, without a smile and minimum eye contact, she continues to water her flowers; making a point not to engage him more than necessary, and quickly turns her back. Knowing that his time with her has expired before it even began, he departs the drizzly, misty scene and his anonymous garden beauty to approach the main house. He finds himself entangled in a web of curiosity as he imagines what her relationship could be to this house. But his thoughts are abruptly disconnected for he suddenly feels cold and damp in his limbs. He looks down and discovers that his pants and newly shined shoes are drenched in water. Shocked and disturbed, a sudden rush of blood penetrates his face, unyielding his anger; he turns around to find the girl with the hose, and her darting almond shaped eyes, staring boldly, right back at him.
Door opens. Firouz quickly collects himself to greet the very tall Mr. Hosseini, who towers him by a at least a foot. An older man with deep frown lines, that smooth out only marginally with his inviting big smile, flanks his left arm out to the side, revealing his noticeably large hand, motioning to welcome the young man inside his home.
They never did leave the house that evening to meet Etti's friend. Instead, Firouz ends up meeting his garden beauty (the one who got his pants wet.) Mother claims, "I did not have any bad intentions."